3 MOVES THAT SHAPE TEAM THINKING

Early on in your company’s journey, communication feels simple. You say what needs to be said, decisions get made, and the team moves. 

As your company grows, your words start carrying more weight. A quick question leads to a full analysis by the team. A casual suggestion becomes the plan. And when you give direction, it tends to lock in much faster than you may have intended. At that point, you aren’t just communicating. You’re shaping how your team thinks.

That’s where a lot of founders get tripped up. We tend to think clarity is the goal. But I don’t think it is. I think intent is.

It comes down to three moves: ask, suggest, and direct. Each one matters. Each one has a time and place. And the difference between using them well or poorly is often the difference between building a high-agency team and becoming the bottleneck.

Read more in Ask, Suggest, or Direct: How to Communicate with Intention.

The best founders I know are deliberate here. So here’s a question worth sitting with: Are you using the right move for the moment, or just the one that feels easiest?

PERSPECTIVES

“Asking the right questions takes as much skill as giving the right answers."

— Robert Half

MARK MY WORDS

If you want to build a company that scales, you can’t be the answer to everything.

I’ve seen founders fall into three traps: Some direct too much because it feels faster. Some keep asking questions when they already know the call they need to make. And some make so many suggestions that the team stops hearing them as suggestions.

Every time you ask, suggest, or direct, you’re teaching your team how to think. Over time, you’re either building a team that uses judgment, or one that looks back at you before making a move.

Use questions to open up thinking, suggestions to offer perspective, and direction when the moment really calls for it.

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ONE MORE FOR THE ROAD

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The 9 Levels of Leadership Every Founder Should Understand

Leadership isn’t fixed. It develops over time, and your company will only grow as far as your leadership capacity allows.

In this piece, I break down the 9 Levels of Leadership and what they reveal about how founders think, decide, and lead as complexity increases.

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A reminder that great leadership, like great judgment, comes down to knowing when to hold back, when to step in, and when to change course.