Compassion is one of the best parts of being human, but without clarity, it can undermine the culture you’re working to build.
I’ve seen both founders and team members burn out trying to carry someone else’s weight. What starts as kindness often leads to dependence, resentment, or fatigue (or all of them at once). Often, it’s rooted in good intentions and a desire to be helpful, but those good intentions can get in the way of real growth.
Toxic compassion shows up in three common ways:
- Overhelping: Solving problems that don’t belong to you
- Savior complex: Jumping in before someone’s had the chance to learn
- Compassion fatigue: Giving so much that you start to check out
Read more in 3 Ways Compassion Can Be Toxic.
You don’t need less compassion — you just need to point it in the right direction. That starts with boundaries, clarity, and belief in people’s ability to grow. Where could that kind of focused compassion take your team?