The Problem Was Never the Business
I recently sat down with Jonathan B. Smith, better known as JBS, and we traded session-room stories.
Early in our conversation, he shared a story that gets to the heart of team health. He was facilitating a session with a family business when two family members started yelling at each other. The team couldn’t just keep working through the agenda like nothing had happened. Before they could solve anything in the business, they had to deal with the relationship issue between the people leading it.
I’ve been in a version of that room. Years ago, I was working through an Accountability Chart with a team. We were hours in and getting nowhere. The chart wasn’t the problem. Two leaders didn’t trust each other, and everyone could sense it. Once we said it out loud, the entire conversation changed.
Leadership teams can spend a lot of time trying to solve business issues when, in reality, a team health issue is shaping the conversation. They keep pressing on, hoping the right tools will create a breakthrough. But when trust is low, even the best tools won’t create real progress.